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Today’s big idea is that a lot of our judgy thoughts come from assumptions. We size someone or something up by filling in a lot of blanks in our own mind and then putting those assumptions in a category of… more →
I used to think that if I could just find the right way to keep my calendar and track my to-do list I would sail through my schedule. The wind blowing through my hair (in a glamorous way). Getting all… more →
You may have noticed I haven’t been writing as many newsletters lately. In part that’s because it was the very end of summer and I wanted to wring every minute of each day with the kids (and the beach) that… more →
Lately I’ve been talking a lot about how to get more done. While I’m a big advocate of pursuing multiple things, the truth is, no matter how much you accomplish, there will also be many things that you wanted and… more →
I got a great email from a reader in response to my recent post, “Are You a Tortoise or a Hare?” She said that realizing that she was a tortoise was really empowering, because she didn’t have to feel bad… more →
This post is about improving your relationships with the people you love. But first, take a look at this photo of a jacket. I bought it at Target 10 years ago. It’s cute, no? While I appreciated its aesthetics, for… more →
Last week I talked about doubting a choice that you’ve made—specifically, how I doubted our decision to adopt a dog. (She’s passed out cuddled up next to me as I write this—she and I have both definitely relaxed in the… more →
This is the final installment in six-part series on how to get the heck out of your own way. At last. For real. And, I wish I could say’ for good,’ but honestly, you’ll have to go through some variation… more →
For the past month, I’ve been talking about practical tools you can use to get out of your own way so that getting what you want becomes both easier and more successful – a nice combination to have, no? Up… more →
This is for those of you out there who are contemplating some change, be it big, little, or something in between. It’s about the secret reason why you might still be in contemplating mode (instead of moving-forward mode). I’m not… more →